THINGS A PERSON WHO REALLY LOVES YOU WILL NEVER TELL YOU

Everyone's greatest fear is being with someone who doesn't love them. Sometimes the relationship is not working out but the couple is still holding on. Maybe because the love is unrequited and the unloved one has so much hope in the relationship. Maybe they have been together for too long so they don't know how to leave apart from each other. Maybe the relationship is a charade they are keeping up with. Or maybe you just aren't sure if the relationship is good for you or not.

There are standard things that someone who loves you will never tell you.



I'd Love you More if....
So now your partner wants you to change something about you for you to get more love. Someone who promises to love you more only if you do something they want you to do doesn't love you in the first place. There's no more love or less love, there's just love.




I wish you were like...
Your partner should be with you because you are perfect for them just
as you are. There are other people whom your partner and you could have been with. People more attractive, better built, more wealthier, funnier, maybe more educated etc than you are but you chose each other because you are perfect for yourselves just as you are. You should be wanted just as you are. When you are getting compared to someone else your partner is drifting. Not really drifting in focus but rather drifting from the fact that you are the ultimate choice just as you are.



You look ugly in that...
Such destructive words to use on someone you love. No one who loves someone would ever use "ugly" to describe how their partner looks like. Clothes can be ugly. Saying "that suit is really ugly" is the right way to say it. "that's an ugly dress..." But when you say "...YOU look UGLY in...." you are going after the person. When people love you, you will never hear that phrase from them.



I wish your (body part) was larger/smaller
In other words, they wish you could " enhance" it. Enhancing a body part should be something you want to do because you want to not because someone suggested it to you. Sometimes you could be with someone who makes you even more conscious about things that mattered less to you. It could make you feel insecure and less sufficient for your partner. You aren't loved just as you are.



I wouldn't provide financially for an adult...

That's a sad thing to say. It could be a phrase randomly spoken but it could mean that at the point where you would not be able to, say, work, your partner would feel like you are a burden. Life has many twists. Today you could wake up alive and kicking, tomorrow you could wake up incapacitated. Paralysed. If someone feels strongly against helping an able-bodied person out financially chances are they will not be around when you are down. Kindness is something your partner gives and should receive from you gladly. Kindness has no limits when someone loves you.



My money is my money...
Almost as above. No one talks about " my money" in a nice relationship. People in a nice relationship always talk and think in plural..."how much do WE have...?"

Financial issues have been put up as the most common reason why relationships don't work. If you are going to be mean and won't share your money then don't get into a relationship. You will frustrate your partner if you do.

Someone who loves you will never talk about "...my money" with you.




Your sex game is boring...
If sex is boring spice it up or leave. Someone just saying it's boring but not telling you how they want it is bad for you. That phrase could easily turn off all your sexual buttons.

The best thing to do is to gradually suggest new ideas. Don't even talk about it, just do it. Anyone can be sexually good for you when truly in love. And if someone feels it could be better, instead of whinning they should make it better or quit. Chances are you would soon meet someone who feels you are sexually perfect.