Friday, 28 April 2017

YES, A WOMAN COULD DATE AND LOVE A BROKE MAN BUT....


The fact about life is that we need money. So when you get into a relationship it means you are willing to spend your money together.


There's a breed of women who wouldn't mind taking care of all the bills. But most men are turned off by that. Society has put it on men that they should be providers so some do not know how to depend on a woman with whom they are in a relationship with and not feel toyboyish. Most men want to be in charge. To handle bills and be needed. And those are the types that are easiest to get along with. Men who know their role. If a woman gets into a relationship with a man who competes about who should pay these bills and those bills that relationship is headed nowhere.


The men who see women as leeches are the type that most women avoid. It's normal to be broke. But being broke and mean is a whole different deal. Infact if a man is mean he has no business being in a relationship. You are trying to share emotions and love but you are unkind. The woman will leave. And you'll hear him complain that she was a gold-digger.

Women can date broke men. Very many women are married to broke men. But kindness is the glue that keeps them together. Sweet kindness. Oh so she left that other man because he was broke but moved on to be with this man who gives her everything she needs. That's not it. Just because a man is wealthy doesn't guarantee that he will be a great provider. Some men are wealthy but mean. A woman could even leave a wealthy but selfish man and move on to a kind yet broke man.

Granted some women do love some men only because those men have money. But most women love kind men who share what they have. So yes a woman could love and date a broke man but only if he's kind and the "broke stage" should also not be so bad that there's never money to buy food for days. Come on!