YES, A WOMAN COULD DATE AND LOVE A BROKE MAN BUT....

The fact about life is that we need money. So when you get into a relationship it means you are willing to spend your money together.


There's a breed of women who wouldn't mind taking care of all the bills. But most men are turned off by that. Society has put it on men that they should be providers so some do not know how to depend on a woman with whom they are in a relationship with and not feel toyboyish. Most men want to be in charge. To handle bills and be needed. And those are the types that are easiest to get along with. Men who know their role. If a woman gets into a relationship with a man who competes about who should pay these bills and those bills that relationship is headed nowhere.


The men who see women as leeches are the type that most women avoid. It's normal to be broke. But being broke and mean is a whole different deal. Infact if a man is mean he has no business being in a relationship. You are trying to share emotions and love but you are unkind. The woman will leave. And you'll hear him complain that she was a gold-digger.

Women can date broke men. Very many women are married to broke men. But kindness is the glue that keeps them together. Sweet kindness. Oh so she left that other man because he was broke but moved on to be with this man who gives her everything she needs. That's not it. Just because a man is wealthy doesn't guarantee that he will be a great provider. Some men are wealthy but mean. A woman could even leave a wealthy but selfish man and move on to a kind yet broke man.

Granted some women do love some men only because those men have money. But most women love kind men who share what they have. So yes a woman could love and date a broke man but only if he's kind and the "broke stage" should also not be so bad that there's never money to buy food for days. Come on!

WHY DO WOMEN LOVE MEN WHO DRIVE CARS?

Sample this: Man A is inside a car. He has just stepped out and approached a lady - let's call her Anne.He leaves her his number and walks back to his car.



Man B is walking on foot, he approaches Anne and leaves her his phone number.



Big question: Whom will Anne call? Man A or Man B.


Man A obviously.

Why?


The car.


The car is not just meant for convenience. True, a woman would be excited about being taken around in a car and getting dropped off wherever she wishes. But the real reason why women love men who drive cars is that it's a symbol of wealth. And while he might not even be wealthy it's a sign that he will be a great provider which might still not even be the case. But if you want to attract women faster, drive.



There's going to be a debate from some women who "...don't get turned on my such things..." but just drive. You could even hire a car and act like it's yours; just don't get caught. Nothing turns off women as much as a man pretending that a car is his while it's not. She'd choose a "...walking man .." over a fake car-owner anyday.

CAN SINGLE PEOPLE GIVE GOOD MARITAL ADVICE?

Single people are seen as a bad influence to married people. If a married person approaches a single person today the most common advice is " ...leave that marriage."


Single people generally do not expect a marriage full of thorns. Marriage, according to most single people should be all fun and easy. Also, some of your single friends might want to hang out with you like you used to before you were married and so they'd definitely give you advice steered towards that direction.


But other married people could also give you bad advice. Even marriage counsellors can give you bad advice.


The very fact that every marriage is going through it's own challenges means that ANYONE, married or not, can give you good or bad advice.



Eventually, you have to pick the advice that's good for you.

FIXING A RELATIONSHIP AFTER AN AFFAIR

Maybe your partner drifted and had an affair. And you got angry but you forgave that person. And now you have to start fixing the relationship. You must start loving again. But the hardest part is trusting again.

You have two options;

1. Believe that they would not cheat on you again.

2. Decide that you will tolerate the cheating


Believe that they would not cheat on you again.


Once you forgive, you do not want to taunt yourself with negative thoughts of distrust. If you choose to stay, stay and believe that your partner will not cheat again. Replaying it on your mind while still staying is bad for you. Start afresh. Force the trust back in.If you cannot trust again, let it go. No relationship can survive without trust.


2. Decide that you will tolerate the cheating

Some people believe that once you start cheating you cannot stop.Well, that's not true. Cheating is a choice. The same way you choose to start cheating is the very same way you can decide not to cheat again.

But some are serial cheats who will never stop. They probably found someone whom they love or are attracted to more than you and so they chose to play games between the two of you. Or, they really are the type of cheats who enjoy the thrill in having multiple partners. But you still choose to stay. You've decided that cheating is suddenly not a huge dealbreaker to you afterall. Fine. Stay.