WHAT TO WEAR ON THAT FIRST DATE LADIES

Deciding on what to wear on other days is never easy for most of us so trying to find something perfect to wear to a date - a first date - is a puzzle in itself. A difficult puzzle. You don't know whether to wear something sexy or something relaxed. You don't know whether to meet up your date in casual wear or if you are meeting-up after work to just show up in your work-clothes.


You want to make an impression on your first date. It may seem like cliché but the first impression really does last long. And the first impression could be the last impression. There's nothing worse than being unsure about your dress code and after the date you part ways and he never calls. You are left wondering if you would have stood a better chance with him if you had put on something more appealing. You could make up for that up by calling him up for another date. Let's just hope he wouldn't have blocked your number by then.


A man would decide if a lady is or his not his type within seconds of meeting up with her. You could wish that people were a bit patient and you wouldn't be judged by the cover but the reality about life is that people do not have time. Give them something that motivates them to know you better. How you present yourself not only to your date, but generally, could be the only thing you need to do to impress people.

So how's the best way to dress up?


Your Hair
Your hair should be the "what-to-wear" determiner. Some hairstyles do not match with some dresses or clothes. You need to look at yourself in the mirror and ensure you do look great. Look at yourself from your date's eyes, do you look good? If you feel great and comfort able then you are good to go.



Shoes
Wear comfortable shoes. Shoes will turn a boring dress into something fabulous. The girl code has been heels. Whichever shoes you decide to put on, just be sure that you are comfortable. Do not embarass yourself wearing shoes you wouldn't be comfortable in. Your date might suggest that you go for a walk. You don't want to end up walking barefoot. If your date is humorous he might not mind. But if he's grumpy your stumbling and falling and walking barefoot could turn him off. If he doesn't call after that date, blame the shoes. Maybe you should carry some spare shoes in your handbag.


Clothes
Are you going to wear a dress?Shorts? Jeans? Dungaree?
Did you ever chat about dressing codes? If he seems like someone who wouldn't be bothered with what you'd wear that's fine but we still want to be on the safe side so would you wear a dress? Skirt maybe? Jeans? A sexy top? Wear something striking. Flaunt your best features a bit.

Where are you going for the date? That would matter too. Are you going to be on a rough terrain? Going for a trek? Going to an expensive restaurant? A casual restaurant?


Still, if you decide to go on the sexy route that's okay. Well you are going on a date with someone whom you would want to find you sexually appealing so sexy is fine. And sexy has no limit...although it shouldn't border on ratchet. Show your feminity without showing too much. Are you wondering what's the difference between sexy and ratchet? Have you ever watched Julia Roberts on Pretty Woman?

It really doesn't matter what you wear, just look feminine. Try your best to impress.


The truth is that some men do not care about all that. He'd probably still like you no matter what you put on. Someone who really wants you wouldn't care what you look on the outside...

No way!


Dress well on the first date. Let your date know you took it seriously. On future dates you will gradually slip back into the clothes you really want to wear to a date but for that first date, make as much effort as you can. If they do not call after that at least you would know they had their reasons but you were your best.